Wednesday, April 26, 2017

ideal

These days,really a bit busy.Accompanying son to round the best junior high school in the town and the best universities in the city.Son seems to have become a grown boy full of ideals.He always asks about what the universities are like,and he says he likes the near ones,because he can go back home conveniently.To support him,we offered to buy a house near the junior high school in the town.I am so happy that we did it for him,and he likes the house much after he saw it.Although it is not big,we like the location.Making a good preparation for son's ideal,no matter it can come true or not.I just tell son to try his best.Son has changed a lot,cheap nfl jerseys, so many subjects make him interested in middle school.He got a good score in the first examination in this school,in twentith in the school,this makes him more confident in study.But after hearing his good news,first to hug him,then I told him it's very possible for him to fall down,and never discouraged.Maybe he can do better than I think.Wish him to have a good mindset in study and life.Failure will also be good thing,to make him strong in heart and be a real man.
All happy things and boring things in this month have finished,in one word,it's not a bad month.

Rich in heart,then no loneliness.

While being older,cheap mlb hats, the feeling of loneliness gets weaker.It's so fair for all to suffer getting old and accept to die.
When we were young,even if we hadn't known about fears and joy,we couldn't let people around leave us.It's really a nice time to get so many people with us together,the sense of safety.Not knowing whether heart world can be smaller,there's nobody else there besides my two families.No matter what bad new news or good news from other people,I seem to hear nothing happened.And nothing else can excite me.Maybe just like a woodman.One of my thinking terrible is someone will come to my home,don't like to try to find topics or say false words.I think I will never fear loneliness,even if my old ages.Yeah,learn to enjoy it,as long as I have a rich heart.To have a rich hear,with fewer people around isbetter than an empty heart,with many around.
Time is passing so quickily,how I wish it can walk slowly!I like such days and everything that family bring me.
Seeing son growing up,to be older with husband together,which should be the happiest thing for me.Husband said his heart had already been full of family,cheap oakley sunglasses, nothing else can squeeze in.In fact,I am the same.

love u,Friday

What to expect,maybe only weekends and holidays.Then Friday feels so lovely.Wish nothing outside to disturb me.However,fake oakley sunglasses, an old classmate informed me to get together with the other three ones in the same town.Not knowing why I would be such a boring and lazy person,maybe one day separate from such a world.I actually know the season that nobody makes me interested.Even hate to see terrible faces more,close eyes and ears,the awful thing for me to accept false words.I know such is the society,like playing a game,however I didn't like games since young.
As long as those that are true or sincere,I would like to accept,no matter how bitter it is,or how seriously it would hurt me.I know I am slowly out of the gameworld,living in my own world.
Although such is my thought,I still have to face all these,telling myself to be myself,never doubt and believe myself.wholesale jerseys, Maybe it's a procedure of being maturer for me,full of suffers and troubles.
Go home and I will forget all those faces and noise.

warm day

Warm Christmas!Merry Christmas to all those lovely person,cheap jerseys, and my pet rabbit,xiaomai.No snow,but still romantic!
Take safety to family with two fruits.Thank those students who gave me fruits.A bit ashamed to think about that I even can't remember some students' name after half a year,which is my first year not paying much affection.So I added two classes to thank them today,maybe they don't think it good.
This morning,I made the rabbit's clothes smaller,and I imagine making the rabbit more lovely with it on.
It should be the quietest Christmas Eve in the past several years.No partners around son to spend such an evening besides xiaomai.So we planned to shop lots of delicious food.Son to buy small snacks,I to buy bigger snacks,husband to buy fruit. No dinner,just stay together.Son said that he would finish homework as quickily as he could.Yeah,eating is always the most important for him.We four,cheap snapback hats, will have a warm evening,even warmer than usual.

Tuesday, April 18, 2017

How to cope with stress

 Stress is a normal part of our daily life.We can not eliminate them at all, but we can find ways to prevent or at least to release them.Here are some ways we can deal with everyday sources of stress.

1.Eliminate as many sources of stress as we can.
      If crowds bother us, cheap snapback hats, just go to supermarket when we know the lines won’t be too long;Try renting videotapes rather than going to crowded movie theaters;If we are always running late, get a pencil and paper and see how we are actually spending our time;We may be able to solve our problems (and de-stress our lives a bit) just by being realistic.If we can’t find the time for all the activities that are important to us, maybe we are trying to do too much. Again, make a list of what we do during the day and how much each activity takes. Then cut back.

2.Avoid predictably stressful situations.
      If a certain sport or game makes us tense (whether it’s football or tennis), decline the invitation to play. After all, the point of these activities is to have a good time. If we know we won’t, there’s no reason to play.If we can’t remove the stress,remove ourselves. Slip away once in a while for some private time. These quiet moments may give us a fresh perspective on our problems.Competing with others,whether in accomplishments, cheap oakleys, appearance, or possessions, is an avoidable source of stress. We might know people who do all they can to provoke envy in others.While it may seem easy to say we should be satisfied with what we have, it’s the truth. Stress from this kind of jealousy is self’inflicted.
  Labor-saving devices, such as cell phones or internet, often encourage us to cram too many activities into each day. Before we buy new equipment, be sure that it will really improve our lives. Be aware that taking care of equipment and getting it repaired can be stressful.
   
3.Try doing only one thing at a time.
       For example, when we’re riding our exercise bikes, we don’t have to listen to the  radio or watch
television.Sometimes it’s okay to do nothing.If we feel stress(or anything else) is getting the better of us, we can ask our friends or parents for help.If cannot solve the problem, we had better seekprofessional help—a doctor or psychologist.

      Early signs of excess stress are loss of a sense of well-being and reluctance to get up in the morning to face another day, cheap jerseys, once we had such kind of feeling, we might as well to reduce them at once before it is too late. And hope all friends here will be safe and sound , as well as happy, all the time.
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Something about graduation

It's graduation time again.I graduated six years ago.Today I looked a video about graduation.It's meaning for your school time over.you will live a ture society.except this,wholesale jerseys, there is another things about college student.they love each other in college.Forr most students it's their first love in their life,they cherish this emotion,but they must face to a same question is seperating.because they can't promise their job and life in the same city.maybe I was born in the south but you was born in the north,most boys will go home to work and life but girls can't go with him,so sometimes graduation equal separation.
  I think their emotions is complex now,they are excited about new life and scared about future,most students don't know what do they will do?what's their life they want to have?One side is their sweetheart.the other side is their future not sure,in this during they will think about more and more but they can't have the right choice.most of them broke up.I think they are must be grieved,It's sad that say goodbye for a person who accompany so long.but they can't do nothing.maybe separation is the only thing they can choose.
  six years ago I left school and into the society and work alone、life alone.time lapse,the school memory is stay in my brain,everything like yestoday.
every year in this time I want to go to my college,maybe nothing I can do,cheap fake oakleys, I just want to walk on our playground and walk in our garden,actually nothing is important except that feeling that let me return six years ago.because I was more younger that time!
 

Peace in heaven

In the scene crowded with pedestrians, the bloody corpse is there. Hardly recognize its identity which is covered by a blanket. Nearby there is a police car. Policemen set up the cordon and spectators gather to rubberneck. So far the only evidence reveals that it is a female from its costume. It is told she jumped from that high building next to the avenue and there is no clear answer to her death.

It is said that she failed the investment in the stock market and found it impossible to win back. Even worse, cheap nfl jerseys, some guys say she gambled too far and could not afford more than she could and lost all the embezzled money. No more information, whatever the word on the street is true or not. The only pity is the death might not occur if there was some precautions made in advance. Now, it is vain to discuss these. Each individual is endowed with a precious life and should not be easily wasted. Now she is just over there, lying in the marble plaza.

Wish the soul rests well in paradise.

Usually people say: “If there is bravery to face death, why not choose to live.” I used to be convinced with that saying but later found it not that correct. At least, there are many choices deciding if it is necessary to live or just end up life. Though the tragedy is not to recommend, we still have to envisage it. Truth to be told, the choice of ending up life is such a challenge which is more painful but decisive than a secular life is.

No one knew Hemingway was painfully living under the torture of aches left in battlefields and meanwhile suffer the illness from chronic disease including diabetes, high blood and failure of eyesight, cheap hats, till he swallowed up the bullet from his scattergun. The fame once had pushed him too much more than the bitterness of suffering had from physical hurt. He was/is still known as the tough man.

The tomb does not discriminate each dead body, just live with dignity when we are still alive.

Sunday, April 16, 2017

Divorce

It's been a long time since the last time I posted a blog. At that time, I was still working on my master's degree. Now, replica oakley sunglasses, I have been working for more than four years in a word famous IT company. Forget to mention, I was married two years ago.

The problem is my wife and I are not happy with each other. And the root cause is our income difference. She works in a bank and get a decent payment, more than me. Therefore, she likes to challenge every decision I made.Thanks to her parents, she grew up becoming a small minded and selfish woman. I just can't stand for it. Now she is getting trained in HK. A few weeks ago, she sent me a message saying that she is in Beijing now, lost her purse. She asked me to bring the 户口本 to her, so she could re-register her identification card in the police station. She asked me to meet out of our district because she don't want to meet my mom, who came to visit me. Because my mon did not want to cause any trouble to us, nfl jerseys cheap, she pick a time when my wife is absent from home to visit me.
I gave my wife a hug as soon as I met her. "I want to break up" she said. I can't believe what she said. "Why? What's the problem?" I asked. She said she doesn't love me anymore. She recalled the unhappy hours we spent together before and after our marriage. She refused to continue living with me.
So....
What comes into my mind is, fine, you want to break up? let's break up. I don't care what the real problem is. I have had enough. I don't care if she cheated on me in HK. Actually, I kinda of hope that is the truth. So, cheap hats, I can't make my decision divorcing her.

My best teacher

The best teacher I have ever met was my Chinese teacher in my senior high school. She's a plump cheerful woman and not very tall.
The reasons why I think she is the best teacher are as follows: First of all, she is an experienced teacher and she has a wide range of knowledge. Besides, she is a respectable teacher who always abides by professional ethics. What's more, cheap nfl hats, as the head teacher of our class she is not only in charge of our studies but also takes care of our daily life. She is not merely our teacher but a helpful friend. When we are in trouble, she is always the first one to do a favor. Almost everyone in our class is proud of being her student.
Even if I have graduated from senior high school more than a year, I still keep in touch with her and when I encounter problems I always turn to her for help.

O Captain, My Captain

Last week I watched the film Dead Poets Society. The movie is one of the most wonderful films I have ever watched. To be honest, nfl jerseys china, I finished the film with tears. When the boys stood on the desks one by one, and shouted'Oh, Captain, My Captain.' It was really touching that I could not help crying.
I think that everyone may know a person like Mr. Keating, who is optimistic, romantic and full of energy. The best teacher I've known is an old man of medium height, who is a little bit bald and slightly chubby. He was rather elderly with grey hair, reading glasses and beer belly. There are no distinction between him and other senior citizens whose children live far away from them. Thus he treats us as if we are his real children. He can not hear us clear, for he is an old man who is in his sixties. Sometimes we asked him some questions during the break time and waited for him to help us handle the problem. He thought for a while and replayed' Pardon?'
I think everyone knows a person like that. Let's call him the captain. Life is an ocean, cheap Oakley sunglasses, we are sailors and memories are treasures.

Thursday, April 13, 2017

my nightmare

When it comes to the word 'dream', what occurs in my mind is always innocence, purity, beauty and so on. However, we don't have the ability to decide what we dream about so something unpleasant would appear in our dream. Actually,cheap oakley sunglasses I would wake up the next morning with only a little broken memory of the dream left. Yet, there was an unpleasant dream which I would never forget. The dream or the nightmare was rather horrible than unpleasant, lest I couldn't help trembling when I looked back on it.
It was a sunny and warm day. I was on my way back home with a big suitcase. Decided to give my parents a surprise, I didn't tell them about that. The fact was quite the opposite. My parents told me on the phone that they were on the way for a self-driving travel and asked me to spend the whole weekend by myself, which completely surprised me. It would be all right if they just left me alone at home. What horrified me was the news broadcast on the TV after my hanging on the phone. The news read that a terrible accident happened around the downtown and on TV was exactly my parents' car. I couldn't believe my eyes!
I kept telling myself that it wouldn't be true. Taking mobile phone, cheap nfl jerseysI dialed the familiar number. I could hardly calm down when hearing the frozen and cold voice 'sorry!
The phone you dialed has not been answered...'. I kept trembling with fear. Even the big sun became so cold and was not warm any more.
At last, the similar alarm bells woke me up. As the quilt was off, I felt so cold and tears were on my face.

A Car Accident

When I was 14 years old, once I went to my friend's home and enjoyed a wonderful time. On my way home, I seemed to hear someone calling. I turned around and found a strange man. I asserted he might get the wrong person, hence I moved on. And about 10 minutes later, I heard a loud crash. A red Mazar car screeched to a halt with grinding brakes. I caught sight of a man lying down in the pool of blood on the road. Immediately I realized the seriousness of the accident. I called the police and the ambulance. When I went to the man, I recognized him. He was the man who had mistaken me. That was the first time I felt the shock of death. Standing by the road, lost in thought for a long time,cheap mlb hats, I realized the brevity of life. Sometimes I will think what if I die tomorrow? What would I do? Frankly speaking, I am scared of death.Life is a box of chocolate, you never know what you gonna get. Therefore, the best way to live is to consider everyday as your last day.

A dream of the boy who I love

The sun is shining brightly and birds sing and flowers give forth their fragrance. Everything seems to be very beautiful. Then I came across the boy who I have loved for five years. He had a sunshine smile and then he came to me. I was so happy and he invited me to sit on the backseat of his bicycle. I looked the sight of his back and couldn't help to hug him in his waist and put my face on his back.
He rid through a wheat field,fake oakley sunglasses, I could see the wheat sways in the wind. Then I looked up to the sky and saw the clouds floating. I reached for the wind and smiled like a child. He turned around and saw me in a spoiling eyes.
At that time you let me die that is possible. But life always change. A girl showed up and took him. He left me without hesitation. I knew that the girl is his girlfriend, and I had no choice but to watch them to go father and father away.
When I waked up that morning, I felt joyful and sorrowful at the same time. I couldn't return to God for a long time. In a moment, I even wanted that how good if I can be in the dream forever. That was the first time I dreamed of him, even the end was not very good.
He is a kind person, wholesale jerseys, and he should have a good girlfriend, I know that and I always know that. Maybe I still love him now, for I always try to find a boy who has a sunny smile and likes talking, of course, sometimes play tricks on me. And if I get angry, he will try his best to make me feel happy. But I will never come across a boy who likes him.

80’s Generation

Every generation has their own pressure. For our current 80’s generation , we are faced with the job competitive market and the responsibility to make a living for both young kids and elder parents. The society is change day by day, thus, we have to adjust and improve ourselves accordingly, in order to keep pace with the society. Surely ,cheap jerseys, nobody was born under the golden spoon. Sometimes ,even a small achievements we have obtained make us contented. I always trust that to simplify our life can be assure of happiness.

In some extent , we have to make a lot of sacrifice to achieve our goal. Most of us have the strong sense that, it is not so easy to work far away from our hometown. We have to choose big cities for better career development, for better opportunity to make achievements. We have to admit the fact that the chance of success by our working in small town is slim. Take me for example, the salary is too low to survive in our hometown. Meanwhile, some of my old classmates would like to choose to work and live at hometown. They can find a decent job, cheap snapback hats, that is great. It is a pity that I leave behind my childhood friends and some treasure things. I would like to stay together and have fun with them if we are available.

Every coin has two sides. We cannot eat the cake and have it. I lost the valuable hours to witness the growth of my baby. We sacrifice our youthful years to work in big city. It turn out to be quite nice if you work hard and get what you want from life. We have to be brave enough to conquer all the difficulties in our life. After all, life is beautiful , right ?